Friday, June 21, 2013

Being different and think different get more attention



“Don’t be afraid of being different, be afraid of being the same as everyone else.”



To live a richer, more rewarding life, it is essential that you run your own race. Stop bending to the demands of social pressure at the expense of your uniqueness. When we study the lives of the world’s most enlightened and effective people, we will see that they did not care about what other people thought of them. Rather than letting public opinion dictate their actions, they had the courage to let their hearts drive them. And in taking the road less traveled, they found success beyond their wildest dreams.

As Rousseau wrote, “Take the course opposite to custom, you will almost always do well.” Do something different in your own way like no one else does. Read every day something no one else is reading. Think every day something no one else is thinking. It is bad for the mind to be part of the unanimity.  It is very easy in the world to live after the world’s opinion, but great man is who let the world to live after him.

Don’t just do the things because everyone else does them. Do the things that are right for you and you love to do. Being different for all the right reasons is a wise way to live. If you do things well, do them better. Be daring, be first, be different and be just. Don’t go where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail. Choose your own path. Don’t let the people drive you, let you drive the people. Being different is not a bad thing. It means you are brave enough to be yourself.

Dare to be different and being dare to be different today will allow you to become extraordinary tomorrow. Don't try to be the person which you are not, be always the person as you are.  Make your own style and launch it to the world. Every different person and different thinking get attention or noticed out of millions so why don’t you? Be different and think different no matter what other will think.

Thursday, June 20, 2013

Start well first crucial hours



“In the confrontation between the stream and the rock, the stream always wins-not through strength but through persistence.”- Buddha


The way we start our day determines the way we will live our day. The early hours after we wake up are the most valuable moments of our day and have a profound influence on the quality of every second that follows. If we have the wisdom and self-discipline to ensure that during this crucial period, we think only the purest of thoughts and take only the finest of actions, we will notice that our days will consistently unfold in the most marvelous ways. How we can start our day? Firstly give a big thanks to God that he has given one another day to fulfill our dreams and to live life happily.

Get up from the bed have some water and go to bathroom and get fresh. Go to the park do some exercises such as stretching, yoga and meditation. Spend sometimes in silent contemplation focusing on all the good things in life and envisioning the day that you expect is about to unfold. Have fresh juice and light breakfast because whatever we have that affects our mood as well as the clarity of our thinking.

Read some inspirational or motivational books that through which you can charge up yourself for the whole day and further the lessons and stories in these books will make you center on the things that truly count and help to launch your day on the right footing.  And the inspiration, motivation, energy and power we get by reading these books during that precious early morning period infuses and enlightens every remaining second of our day. Be self-starter.

Let your first hour set the theme of success and positive action that is certain to echo through your entire day. Don’t waste it with a false start or no start at all. You are not born to fail. So start your day well. You will never be the same. 

Wednesday, June 19, 2013

Live fully so that you can die with no regrets


“The fear of death follows from the fear of life. A man who lives fully is prepared to die any time.” -  Mark Twin. 



We people don’t discover what life is all about until just before we die. While we are young, we spend our days striving and keeping up with social expectations. We are so busy chasing life’s big pleasures that we miss out on the little ones, like dancing barefoot in the park on a rainy day with our kinds or planting a rose garden or watching the sun come up. We live in an age where we have conquered the highest of mountains but have yet to master our selves.

We have taller buildings but shorter tempers, more possessions but less happiness, fuller minds but emptier lives. Don’t wait until you are on your deathbed to realize the meaning of life and the precious role you have to play within it. All too often, people attempt to live their lives backwards, they spend their lives striving to get the things that will make them happy rather than having the wisdom to realize that happiness is not a place you reach but a state you create.

Happiness and a life of deep fulfillment come when you commit yourself, from the very core of your soul, to spending your highest human talents on a purpose that makes a difference in other lives. When all the clutter is stripped away from your life, its true meaning will become clear to live for something more than yourself. Stated simply the purpose of life is a life of purpose. As well said by Martin Luther King, Jr., “If a man hasn’t discovered something that he will die for, he isn’t fit to live.”