Keep back up all the time

Universal fact that everyone needs "Back up" for functioning the things smoothly. A common human tendency is that we get frustrated so easily when we do not get the result what we expected for. So there we need back up and to boost ourselves. Keep yourself into positive environment and that can be of positive people or inspirational quotations or words that you can keep with you all the time so that you can get positive energy.

Whenever you feel alone or frustrate directly go to the people those have positive thoughts and positive energy and if not then read your own collection of inspirational quotations or words that you keep with you all the time. Don’t leave yourself alone without back up i.e. positive people they can be your family members, friends and teacher and further your own collection of inspirational quotations or words. It is very difficult to remain all the time with the positive people but in the absence of them you can keep the inspirational quotations or words with you and pasting them in places where you can see them throughout the day, such as on bathroom mirror, on the refrigerator door, on the dash board of your vehicle and your office computer.

 Most importantly by chanting your own inspirational quotations or words using your commuting period, you can keep yourself in positive environment all the time. You can make your own inspirational quotations or words like "I am more than I appear to be, all the world’s strength and power rests inside me,”. You can make inspirational quotations or words according to you so that you can remember it easily and make yourself positive.  Keep the back up all the time with you.   

Write your problems

“ A problem well stated is a problem   half solved”, Charles Kattering.

There is something very special that happens when you take out a piece of paper and write every single one of your problems on it. It is very much like the peaceful feeling you get after telling your best friend about something that has been troubling you for weeks. A weight somehow falls from your shoulders. You feel lighter, calmer and freer. Our minds can be our best friends and in opposite they can be our worst enemies also. 

If you keep thinking about your problems, pretty soon you will get depressed and will find yourself into the world of problems. The mind is a strange creature in this regard, the things you want it to forget, it remembers. Write all your worries on a piece of paper and start encounter your problems one by one. If you do so, they will no longer be able to fester in your mind and drain your valuable energy. This simple exercise will also permit you to put your problems into perspective and tackle them in an orderly, well-planned sequence.

More surprisingly when you write your problems on paper and see the paper, you will get to know some of the problems do not exist and we are worrying about them in advance. Among the many successful people who have used this technique are martial arts master Bruce Lee and Winston Churchill who once said,’ It helps to write down half a dozen things which are worrying. Two of them, say, disappear; about two, nothing can be done, so it’s no use worrying; and two perhaps can be settled. 

Nature changes your nature

Be close to the natural surroundings as much as you can and feel it and you will feel calmness and peace in your mind and heart and a change in your nature till you remain in that environment. Spending time alone in natural surrounding connects us to the larger universe around us and restores our spirit in this hurried age. Sitting in a wooded park and listening to the wind move through the leaves fill us with a sense of quiet and peace.

Savor the smell of flowers. Listen to birds when they chirp. Listen to soft music when the river flows through the rocks. See in the sky and close your eyes and feel every moment. Our priorities become clearer, obligations seem less pressing and mind grows still.

Communing with nature is also an excellent way to unlock our creativity and generate new ideas. Newton formulated the Laws of Gravity while relaxing under an apple tree. Natural surroundings serve to stifle the endless chatter that fills our minds so that our true brilliance can be liberated. Take off your shoes and fee the grass under your feet. Give a thanks that you have the privilege of enjoying these special gifts of nature.  

Don’t let go even a single second, make most of it

Every one of us is entrusted to complete a project i.e. our life’s aim with a time period of 80 years i.e. average life of a man. But in a span of this period, how much time we use to complete it? Can we really afford to spend all our time in thinking what to do? How to do? We waste most of our time in staring out the window, gossiping with the friends, daydreaming etc. Really it is a serious thing that out of 24 hours of day, how much time we give to complete our project i.e. our life’s aim. Don’t let go even a single second, make a most of it.

Every single second is past, once it is gone that cannot be brought back. Give a short look on your watch that is on your home’s wall or on your wrist, how a second is passing and you will realize that you have not done anything in this very single second. Really have you done anything in this single second? Right from here say yourself how to use this single second? How can you make a most of it? And don’t let it go.

Highly successful and enlightened people have common habit, they make most of their time and complete their project while they are commuting, playing, sitting and even when they are sleeping. They use every single second and keep on working on their tasks. In doing so, they transform their commuting, playing, sitting and sleeping times into learning time and complete their project in quick time. 

Redesign your life

Redesign your life if you are not happy with your present life and if you are not getting the result what you expected for. It would be better to redesign the life rather than sticking to the existing life or situation with which you are not happy or not getting the absolute best results that you wanted for. One of the most beautiful things about time is that you cannot waste it in advance.

 No matter how much you have squandered in the past, the very next hour that comes in your way will be perfect, unspoiled and ready for you to make the best of it. No matter what has happened to you in the past, your future is spotless. You know every dawn brings with it the corresponding opportunity to being a completely new life. If you so choose, tomorrow can be the day that you expected for. No one is stopping you from redesigning your life.

As Author Ashleigh Brilliant has observed,” At any moment I could start being more of the person I dream to be, but which moment should I choose?” This very second you can decide the way you would like it to unfold  and create a new ending. The only question is that will you choose to do so? Remember, it is never too late to become the person you have always desired to be. So without wasting your time, redesign your life.