Get noticed by the Mob

First impression is last impression. Be attractive and smart so that you may get noticed far away out of the mob. Coming across as silly and ditzy can give people a impression that you are not as smart as your really are. You know your friends like you but how are you seen by your boss and strangers on the street. You can still sharpen up your look and not lose your integrity or your friends by looking at your physical appearance and also on your mental state.

Give a serious attention to your personal hygiene. Shave and shower daily. Evaluate your professional and social clothes and start adding smart looking pieces to your personal wardrobe. Wear shoes that are undamaged and free from scuff and that fit well and that can be polished. Keep yourself in touch as much as you can with the people those are older and experienced than you and doubt you will learn a lot.

Spend time talking to people older and more experienced than you. This will really broaden your view of the world and bring you much more knowledge about people and society. Look at your behaviors and see what you do that generates negative attention and what generates positive attention. Give a look why you do certain things. Do you do things to be controversial? To get attention? To look like your friends or to fit into a certain group? Evaluate your results and try to know something about yourself through the process of introspection. 

Read and watch the subjects or people that interest you. Visit art shows, historical sites and museums etc. Soak up the world around you. Awareness always makes you more knowledgeable and you will be having more intelligent things to talk about. Don’t spend all night on the computer chatting with friends.  But you will be got noticed or attracted only when you apply. Get out from the mob and get noticed.