Monday, June 10, 2013

Build healthy relationship

Humans are social beings. We enjoy being understood and accepted;  feeling that we belong.  May be that’s why our friends, family and our life partner are so important to us. Unfortunately, we give value to individual achievement over personal relationship. We are good at finding career success but less than stellar at connecting with other people. As a result, our relationship often suffer. A healthy relationship is within our reach if we are willing to maintain. Life is short. Spend a lot time with your loved ones. Don’t get too involved in work that you start giving less time to your family. Family comes first. Cherish every moment with your loved ones. Be stick to your words. Follow through on your promises. When you say you are going to do something, do it. Don’t blow off or forget your premises. If you don’t complete your promises, it will destroy the trust and healthy relationships always need trust in order to thrive. In relationship admit your mistakes if you have done something wrong that hurt to somebody or your loved ones. Be humble and apologize sincerely without making excuses or justifications. In building healthy relationship you need to listen to your partner and loved ones. Being a good listener  is all about  paying attention to what they are saying and not blowing it off. Listening to your loved ones and partner will help to resolve the differences without arguing. To build a strong relationship, listen to everybody carefully and try to understand what they want to say. Show affection in whatever manner you can. Do something that  they will appreciate. In making healthy relationship you need to be loyal. Make sure that you will always be there for  them and will be loyal. Don’t hide anything from your partner and loved ones whether it is good or bad. Everything should be crystal clear. This way you will be able to overcome all the challenges and difficulties together. Everyone wants some freedom so don’t watch what he/she does. Everyone hates to be watched or controlled. Express your feelings to your partner or loved ones that how much they mean to you. Always encourage to your partner or loved ones, so that they can be successful at work or study. That will realize them how much you care about their future and they will believe that you are always there to support them.  Practice forgiveness, forgiveness is a decision of letting go of the past and focusing on the present. Give some space to your partner and loved ones. Laugh as much as you can and develop a better communication in relationship.   

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