Find your place of peace

Find your place of peace where you can be quiet and still for some times out of your 24 hours. Let your mind take some rest into that place of peace. There no one can come, totally silent place, there you can meet with your soul and you can talk to yourself. This place will serve as your oasis in the world of stress.

This place will be a place where you can take rest and get peace from the crush of daily activities that demand your time, energy and attention. This place can be your bedroom or an apartment with some fresh flowers. Even a wooden bench in your favorite park can serve as your place of peace. When you feel you need some time alone, visit this place and do some of those inner development activities that are so easy to neglect during the course of a busy day. Write in your journal whatever comes in your mind and make your mind empty and refresh it or listen to your favorite music. Close your eyes and visualize your dreams.

Replenishing your inner reserves allows you to give more, do more and be more for others. Making the time to care for your mind and spirit will keep you balanced, enthusiastic and youthful. Place of peace where you can keep your self-confidence and hope young.  

Get noticed by the Mob

First impression is last impression. Be attractive and smart so that you may get noticed far away out of the mob. Coming across as silly and ditzy can give people a impression that you are not as smart as your really are. You know your friends like you but how are you seen by your boss and strangers on the street. You can still sharpen up your look and not lose your integrity or your friends by looking at your physical appearance and also on your mental state.

Give a serious attention to your personal hygiene. Shave and shower daily. Evaluate your professional and social clothes and start adding smart looking pieces to your personal wardrobe. Wear shoes that are undamaged and free from scuff and that fit well and that can be polished. Keep yourself in touch as much as you can with the people those are older and experienced than you and doubt you will learn a lot.

Spend time talking to people older and more experienced than you. This will really broaden your view of the world and bring you much more knowledge about people and society. Look at your behaviors and see what you do that generates negative attention and what generates positive attention. Give a look why you do certain things. Do you do things to be controversial? To get attention? To look like your friends or to fit into a certain group? Evaluate your results and try to know something about yourself through the process of introspection. 

Read and watch the subjects or people that interest you. Visit art shows, historical sites and museums etc. Soak up the world around you. Awareness always makes you more knowledgeable and you will be having more intelligent things to talk about. Don’t spend all night on the computer chatting with friends.  But you will be got noticed or attracted only when you apply. Get out from the mob and get noticed.   

Keep back up all the time

Universal fact that everyone needs "Back up" for functioning the things smoothly. A common human tendency is that we get frustrated so easily when we do not get the result what we expected for. So there we need back up and to boost ourselves. Keep yourself into positive environment and that can be of positive people or inspirational quotations or words that you can keep with you all the time so that you can get positive energy.

Whenever you feel alone or frustrate directly go to the people those have positive thoughts and positive energy and if not then read your own collection of inspirational quotations or words that you keep with you all the time. Don’t leave yourself alone without back up i.e. positive people they can be your family members, friends and teacher and further your own collection of inspirational quotations or words. It is very difficult to remain all the time with the positive people but in the absence of them you can keep the inspirational quotations or words with you and pasting them in places where you can see them throughout the day, such as on bathroom mirror, on the refrigerator door, on the dash board of your vehicle and your office computer.

 Most importantly by chanting your own inspirational quotations or words using your commuting period, you can keep yourself in positive environment all the time. You can make your own inspirational quotations or words like "I am more than I appear to be, all the world’s strength and power rests inside me,”. You can make inspirational quotations or words according to you so that you can remember it easily and make yourself positive.  Keep the back up all the time with you.